One glorious summer day as you walk the hallowed halls of your college campus, a particular hunk or angel catches your eye, tickles your fancy and traps your soul.The feeling stays with you for days, sustaining you in the absence of appetite and sleep.Here are a few helpful suggestions on how to get that crucial first date: with him or her.
Psychologist John Buri describes the phenomenon as a 2-step screening process: Step 1: We scan the environment.
The bottom line is this, having love for a person is not the same as wanting to have sex with said person. While the above tips are helpful for most guys and girls, you may have to study your prospect for a while before deciding on the perfect way to impress him/her. But the more you know about a person, the better your decision will be as to whether or not you will be compatible with him/her.
Issues such as personality, lifestyle, career choice, religion, etc.
Step 2: Those who did make the cut continue to be evaluated for further attention and possible selection.
How effective is initial attraction in predicting long term, stable and happy relationships? Instead of taking advice from a Hollywood movie, why not try taking a few tips from persons who have been there and done that.
After a series of follow-up interviews with a group of women over the course of a decade, Diamond stated “most females identified themselves as non-heterosexual, but several reported falling in love with, and developing sexual desire for, individual men in their lives” (Munsey, 2007).