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You as the girl are acting as the super-traditional Indian girl who gives up everything; including her family, place of home, independence and identity to marry and move to India.Ironically, as the incidence of Western women taking part in this behavior increases, Indian man’s desire to marry the Westerner may increase as more and more modern Indian women are not interested in being so confined and traditional.Many say “The first year of marriage is the hardest.” This is often said among Americans who marry other Americans – not in a typical cross-cultural relationship.Yes, the first year of marriage can be the hardest even when the mindsets, environment and communication challenges seem very similar.” He replied, “Look, I am a bus driver, women these days are highly educated and no one wants to marry an uneducated bus driver. Time and years are flying by and I want a family.” After all, a nice guy, who said he was not looking for a housewife who would cook for him, but someone who would be ready to have a family. Over 80% of Thai immigrants to Sweden are coming as a result of family reunions of Swedish men marrying Thai wives.The magazine The Economist published an article on 3rd September this year with the title, “I don´t”, describing how most Japanese who want to get married find it hard to accomplish their goal.To many Westerners, the statement “I love you” often stands for a long-term commitment.
In some local towns with a population of a few thousand, most people have a car and there are few passengers in the buses, leaving room for an honest conversation. I asked, “Why a woman from Asia, it is so far away and then there are so many women in Denmark? Some years ago, a website where Scandinavian men search for wives, thailoveliness.com, declared Sweden to be the country with the highest percentage of local men with Thai wives or life partners.
Through the last fifteen years of being involved in the Indian community and interacting with many non-Indian, Western,and white women who struggle with relationships and commitments with their Indian boyfriends, I share the top three mistakes that most of these women make while trying to overcome the challenges of acceptance from their Indian boyfriend or to-be's family.
Many Americans hold an ideal that regardless of social standing, culture, economic status, educational background and religion, love will overcome all these problems and make everything ‘ok.’ This can be true if and only if the couple have extensive discussions before marriage about expectations after marriage and into the long term, such as both partners’ career aspirations, family planning, traditions, values, choosing the place to live among many other variables.
Due to the upsurge of the Internet, the incidence of cross-cultural love affairs takes place without the two people ever interacting face to face (in person as compared to Skype, which is not the same).
The first time these couples meet face-to-face is when one saves up enough money to travel to the other.
The problem is that in many Indian families, many may still believe love comes after marriage.